Kesia Bendinelli 11/9/25 Kesia Bendinelli 11/9/25

How to Tell Your Children You're Getting A Divorce.

Telling your children you’re getting a divorce may be one of the hardest conversations you’ll ever have but it doesn’t have to be damaging. In this Conflict to Connection blog, we share practical strategies for delivering the news with empathy, honesty, and reassurance.

Kesia Bendinelli 11/9/25 Kesia Bendinelli 11/9/25

What's wrong with divorce in the UK?

Divorce in the UK is often described as adversarial, focused on blame, and leaving families stuck in cycles of conflict. But does it have to be this way? In this Conflict to Connection blog, we explore what’s wrong with the current system and how approaches like reflection, collaboration, and child-inclusive mediation can offer families a more compassionate path forward.

Kesia Bendinelli 24/4/25 Kesia Bendinelli 24/4/25

Introducing the Conflict to Connection Podcast: A Guide to Divorce, Separation & Coparenting

At Civilised Separations, our goal is simple: to help families have kinder divorces and protect children so they can thrive. That’s why we created Conflict to Connection—a podcast exploring what really happens when relationships end, and how to move forward with less conflict and more connection.

Bill Hewlett 12/11/24 Bill Hewlett 12/11/24

What Happens in a Child Inclusive Interview? A Guide for Parents

As a parent going through separation, it’s natural to wonder about whether involving your child in mediation is a good idea. This article explains what happens during a child interview, and why we recommend it.

Bill Hewlett 16/10/24 Bill Hewlett 16/10/24

Building Strong Relationships For Better Mediation Outcomes

In family mediation, the relationship between the practitioner and the client is key to successful outcomes, especially when working with separating parents.

Bill Hewlett 24/9/24 Bill Hewlett 24/9/24

How Mediation Helps Heal Relationships by Addressing the Root Cause of Conflict: The Power of Listening and Being Heard

Mediation helps couples feel heard, addressing hidden conflicts and reducing blame. Discover how it fosters understanding, healing, and effective communication for healthier post-separation relationships.

Bill Hewlett 17/9/24 Bill Hewlett 17/9/24

Ten Ways to Improve Communication During Separation for Co-Parents

Discover ten effective ways to improve communication during separation for co-parents. Learn how to reduce conflict, practice active listening, and focus on your children’s wellbeing. With the right strategies, co-parenting can become smoother and less stressful.

Bill Hewlett 6/9/24 Bill Hewlett 6/9/24

Why High Net Worth Individuals Should Consider Civilised Separation

Based on research by Bill Hewlett, our expert mediation services help manage complex asset divisions and child-centered outcomes, ensuring a respectful, conflict-minimised process.

Bill Hewlett 4/9/24 Bill Hewlett 4/9/24

Relational Mediation: A Path to Co-Parenting

How relational mediation can help you and your co-parent work together to move forward.

Bill Hewlett 3/9/24 Bill Hewlett 3/9/24

Accessing The Parental Mind Through The Heart: A Case Study Review by Bill Hewlett

Bill discusses a case study that showcases the effectiveness of Child Inclusive Mediation for children and parents, even in high conflict separations.

Bill Hewlett 10/5/24 Bill Hewlett 10/5/24

Considering the child’s welfare during divorce

Bill answers questions from Stewarts Law that look at how children experience divorce and provides advice for parents on how to discuss your separation with your children.